nothing is impossible. so love isn't either. at first make peace with love, then it will have room to fully enter into your being. allow yourself the gift of being love. not being in love, but being love itself. being 'in' love suggests that love is something separate, something other. like being in a new city on holiday. no, love is more like being that new cities homeless people. invisible but omnipotent, mostly harmless but always with a heart of gold and stories to tell.